There comes a point
in life where you look at where you are, how far you have come, what you
have gained and where you are going. When I do this I always like to
look at what the changes were that I made which helped me accomplish
what I have so far in life and in doing so I realise that most of those
changes were who I allowed into my life and let go of.
Most of us understand the concept of staying positive in order to
accumulate more positivity and to live a happy life. The Law of
Attraction. What you put in you’ll get out. Reap what you sow etc. etc. –
A lot of the time though we don’t realise that in order to do so we
need to be aware of the toxic people in our lives.
It takes deep self-honesty to do so because a lot of the time it is hard
to admit you have made a wrong decision in befriending someone who is
actually toxic to your life or you might be under the impression that
you love this person. Ultimately the choice will have to be made as to
whether you choose to keep living this way with these people in your
life – or you have to break free and live the life you were born to
pursue – a happy positive and abundant one.
A quote from Brian Carruthers – “You are, or will become, the average of the five people you associate with the most.”
I like to think of my home and space as an area of positivity – a place
where my family and I feel safe and secure. Together as positive
separate units we make one big happy ball of positivity. This makes me
feel like together we are more powerful in attracting abundance and even
more happiness. I like to visualise it in my mind as a yellow giggly
happy ball of family squishiness and love. Of course everyone has their
ups and downs. Of course we are allowed to cry and vent if we need to.
When it is over it is gone though and we try to move on from it. It is
very important to feel every emotion you experience so you can
understand it and learn how to deal with it. This is why, when I allow
someone into our space, I am very careful and cautious about who they
are because negative people don’t just affect your vibrations but they
affect the energy around them and everyone else around them. I know of a
few people who I would never allow into my space because it would feel
like I am compromising the positive vibes our unit has already created.
Negative people are noticeably pessimistic and will exhaust you.
Damaging energy and drama follow them everywhere and they can pull you
into their chaos disrupting your focus and side-lining your goals.
Negative people can sometimes behave irrationally and you will waste
your time and energy if you try to make sense of their actions. I don’t
think it is possible to continually live with someone like this in your
life without either falling into the same pattern they follow or
becoming completely drained from either trying to shield yourself from
them or by trying to help them/listen to them.
You might think that when you are “detoxing” your life from these toxic
people that you might start feeling lonely but in the long run it is
better to have a few good friends than a whole bunch of negative
destructive ones. Slowing start building new positive friendships. In
the end every time you subtract negativity from your life you make room
for more positive.
You might also think that the amount of drama it will cause in trying to
get rid of them is not worth it in the end but maybe just by remaining
positive and limiting your time with negative people they will eliminate
themselves from your life without you having to do anything. Or seeing
as though we are trying to be more positive here you might even turn
them into positive thinkers! You will have to realise though that if
someone is not on the same vibrational level as you and they can’t lift
themselves up to your level that your paths will inevitably split. From
my own experience leaving it to that point is even more draining.
Ultimately what matters is that you are living the best life that you
can. You cannot live a fulfilled life when other people are dragging you
down in whatever negative way that they do it. You have free will –
don’t forget that. Free will means you ultimately determine what you
believe. Freedom is the ability to say yes or no. Free will is the
ability to do so. Free will is the exercise of freedom, the ability to
choose between alternatives. We have a choice. This means you don’t need
to let people affect you negatively, you don’t need to allow negative
people into your life. The decision is yours. Know your worth.
“Every day you must unlearn the ways that hold you back. You must rid
yourself of negatively, so you can learn to fly.” – Leon Brown
Dance Your Life
Tuesday, 2 August 2016
Monday, 1 August 2016
How to Positively Get Over People Who Hurt you
I have
always tried to be as confident as I can be throughout my life - not with ease however
and it did not come naturally as inside I was a trembling shy little girl and
in public I tried to come across as strong independent and confident. That
was me feeding my ego and trying to become someone I was not.
As I have grown up through the years - I started moulding into the confident person I had tried so hard to become but this happened gracefully and naturally because I learned to accept and love who I am. I am proud of how far I have come. But even when we reach this stage in our lives - when we learn to love and accept ourselves - there will still be obstacles to overcome in this regard - obstacles that test your confidence in knowing who you are, that make you rethink the choices you have made and ways you see yourself, that test your confidence in yourself. Lately I have learned a lot of new lessons in this area of my life.
One of these obstacles relate to people who put you down - indirectly by using gossip or slander - or directly by telling you the negative things that they think of you, or maybe even in a passive way - by treating you less than others but without directly or indirectly saying so.
In the
past it used to really get me down – when situations like this arise we can’t
understand what we have done wrong and also how we could have allowed people
like this into our lives in the first place. It is a feeling of helplessness
and rejection and forces you to look at yourself to try and find the faults and
flaws that you apparently have. I mean if others say it is so – then maybe it
is so, right? It feels damaging.
I thought
about how I could deal with things like this in a more positive way. In the past
I would have been really upset, most probably would have cried and tried to
stand up for myself and explain myself - which only feeds the fire. Today though, I have not had an inkling
of an urge to want to do that. Why? Because I have learned that by focusing my
energy on something that does not feel good only makes it worse.
That all
makes sense but what I also realized was that by suppressing how I feel about
the situation would also make me feel bad on the inside and if that happens it tends to fester.
How then do we
get over hindrances like this in our lives without becoming egotistical about it
and without losing touch with who we are, and at the same time how do we overcome this feeling of
rejection and hurt?
The first
step would be to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and by doing that
begin to understand that everyone wants to be happy and for some people to feel
good about themselves they make others look bad. This is tremendously unsound
but remains one of the ways that some people use to feel good about themselves.
This
brings up another side of the coin though. From a Buddhist perspective for
example, it is our egos that have been bruised. People can't
injure “you” with words, they can only injure your ego. That cuts both ways… we
need to understand that their behaviour is not about us, it's about them. It's
about their ego trying to preserve and enhance itself. It does that by
diminishing others to make itself feel more important and to make itself
"right" at all costs.
We have to recognize that, bless them on their way, forgive
and be done with it. Free yourself to move on and to take up your own path.
I come
back to the point again of the power of positivity and how you should not let
negativity rule any part of your life. Yes, these people are out there and
there will always be people that will try to bring negativity into your life.
The way to overcome this feeling through positivity is to focus on the people
that do love and care for you. Focus on them, don’t forget about them – embrace
those people in your life. Shift your focus.
In the
end what matters is that you know who you are. If you have clear
understanding of who you really are, another person’s opinion should really not
affect you. Everyone is a work in progress – we all have our faults and
our strengths.
Keep working on yourself to be the best version of you, don’t let others try to
bring you down, don’t be ashamed of who you are and how far you have come or
have got to go.
I will
end this with the words of Brenda Russell: “In an ideal
world, on an Ideal day, we could care for each other, in an ideal way, when
they open the door, I would be the first, to start loving each other, in an
ideal world...”
Thursday, 21 April 2016
3 Day Apple Juice Fast
So, I exercise between 3 - 5 days a week. Three of those days each include a one hour intense workout (Piloxing, Zumba, Zumba Toning). The rest of the week I use a vibration plate or my home gym. My diet is very clean. I don't eat red meats, wheat or sugar. I have cut down dairy to either feta or mozzarella cheese and occasionally milk in my coffee.
I have not lost a single kilogram in almost a year of continuing to work hard and eat right. It makes no sense and I am extremely frustrated.
I was assessed recently and it came to my attention that my hormones were out of balance. The cause? ... Tryphasil (contraceptive pill). It made my oestrogen levels excessive and my progesterone levels very low - which is how the pills works in the first place but it is not natural in any way and it could be the main reason as to why I can't lose weight, my mood swings etc.
I therefore decided to come off the contraceptive with the hope to get my hormones rebalanced. It has been 2 months - no changes in weight but I am 100 times more happier and I feel like myself again. Which is great! Except I still have not lost any weight.
After doing some research and finding out that hormones are processed through the liver - and also accepting that I have been drinking WAY too much coffee - I have decided that I am going to do a fast to help cleanse my body.
I have previously done a 5 day fast - but I have chosen to rather go for the 3 day fast this time because I am so active.
I will record each day of my fast explaining what I experience, how I feel etc. Starting from Monday! Wish me luck!
Wednesday, 13 April 2016
To the Good Men! Thank you - a tribute to Dewaldt
There was a point in my life
when I used look at men with utter disgust. I used to wonder when men decided
that 30 was the new 19. When men thought it was better to remain single and
independent than staying committed to another. When men thought it okay to be courageous
on nights out but afraid to be fathers. I use to wonder when it was that
"guy night" became more important than movie night and date night. I
used to wonder when men became boys and when staying out became better than
showing up…
True it is that some of these
statements are true about some men – men who have given other men horrible
reputations - me cooler than showing up. but
today I want to write about the good men, a tribute to the wonderful man I
found (or who found me). A real man – who knows what it truly means to be a
loving partner and an awesome father. This is to all of the other men out there
who put their families first – you are loved and appreciated, thank you.
I got divorced while I was
three months pregnant with my ex-husband’s second child. The reason for my
decision was based on my children’s happiness and well-being. To be honest (and
I know this puts me in a somewhat very weak light) I would never have left this
man if it was not for my children. I would have let him carry on with his ways
until my time on earth was over if my children were not born. When I brought my
first child into this world – it was only then that I realized how poisonous
the relationship was between my ex-husband and I and all I worried about was
how badly it would affect my children. I had to get them away from this
environment – I could not let them watch me die inside every day – their hearts
and their well-being is all that matters. And so I left him… after watching my
almost 2 year old look at me with pain in his eyes because mommy was trying to
hold back the tears – at that very moment I made the decision to take the first
step I needed to take in the right direction. And let me tell you, when I took
that first step – everything else just fell into place and I have never been in
a better place than where I have been since then to this day.
Shortly after making that life
changing decision – I met someone else. He was one of the kindest souls I had
ever met, gentle, awkward, sweet and funny. He helped me through the difficult
transition I was going through, made me feel confident in myself and made me
see the happier, lighter side of life. It turned into us constantly messaging
each other every day until the early hours of each morning. Speaking to each
other every day, caring about each other’s day – I believe the love between us
was already felt by both of us long before we actually told each other we did.
Yes! We fell in love… He fell in love
with me… ME! the pregnant, divorced, single mother of one (soon to be two)…
this wreck of a woman! This wonderful man – wanted me AND I wanted him. For the
first time in my whole existence I knew what it felt like to be truly loved and
to love someone completely. With no judgment, no fear or expectation – I loved
this man the moment our eyes met.
One of the most heartwarming
parts of this story is the fact that he accepted my children as his own. He
took them in and embraced them with love and understanding. For the first time
my children had a real father. He was there for the birth of my second child,
he held him for the first time. He has helped me every night, since the day we
moved in together, with the baby/toddler night shifts, the warming up of
bottles and the nappy changes. Even more of a shocker – he has let me go off for
an hour or two on weekends so that I can do Parkruns or my hair at the salon while
he cares for the kids.
To this day I still feel like
I am living in some sort of fantasy – never in my wildest dreams would I have
ever thought that I would be with someone who treated me so well and for who I
just want to love and care for. That I would find someone who is the perfect
father role model for my children.
He restored my faith in men, it
really is true that not all men are dogs. We need to remember that we deserve
love, true love, happiness and respect. The same goes for men who are in bad
relationships with women who treat them badly. There are good people out there…
you don’t have to be in an abusive relationship. Get out, for your own sake.
And if your own sake is not good enough then for your children’s sake, for your
unborn children’s sake and for the sake of your family and the people who love
you. We all deserve to be happy, no matter what you look like, no matter what
you are going through, the right man/woman is out there for you – someone who
will love you like you should be loved. Nobody deserves to be treated badly.
Life is too short to waste it on trying to save a relationship that has already
hit the rocks. Pick up from where you are and move on – life has better things
planned for you. Divorce does not mean a dead end. It is brand new beginnings
and a clean slate.
You are stronger than you
think.
Monday, 12 October 2015
Bouncing Back
Looking back at the past few years and all the changes and
processes my body has gone through, especially the last 3 years through both my
pregnancies. It is a difficult thing – learning your body and how it works and
then it constantly changes and you have to change things up again in order to
care for it. It is hard work for a women and I don’t think many people,
especially men and women who have not had children, understand what it means
and how hard we have to work to maintain, lose weight and feel good about
ourselves.
I remember when I first came to the realisation of what it
meant to be healthy. Yes I had struggled through eating disorders and learned
all about it in recovery – but that day when I had that Ah Ha moment was
magical. Almost 4 years after what I thought was recovering from my disorder
(realising that I still had some bad habits) – I realised what it meant to look
after your body. Skipping meals was not helping – exercising your ass off and
then eating a huge meal was not helping – smoking was not helping. I could not
believe that I was eating 6 times a day, healthy meals, exercising for 30
minutes 3 times a week and I lost 25kg in a year. I could not believe it! Where
had I gone wrong all this time. I think this happens with most AH HA moments –
you always wonder why you didn’t know this before. The answer is because you
were not ready – you are growing and you are still growing and learning and
this should be an amazing moment for anyone.
I decided today that even though I am not exactly where I
want to be in my fitness and weight loss goals I am proud of where I am now and
how far I have gotten. Damn it has been one hell of an up and down journey –
emotional roller coasters – watching my body morph and change and bounce back to morphing again in my
pregnancies. Breastfeeding – sheesh that has done some major transformations to
my upper body. Through everything else that life is throwing at us, maintaining
your career, caring for your kids, working on your relationships – you have
still got this with your fitness and weight loss goals. You are still making an
effort! I think I, and every other mother out there keeping it together – deserves
a standing ovation. I AM proud of myself!
The people who look at you and tell you that you are not
good enough yet don’t know what you have struggled through. It is not easy, for
any mother, to lose the weight and get back to the same fitness level they were
at before – not because they don’t try but because our bodies are a little more
challenging than they were before pregnancy and of course when we were younger.
At least we are working on it – and boy are we gonna get there – and they will
be speechless because we would have mastered reaching this goal through way
more obstacles than most. And that ladies is just one more thing to be proud
of!
This is to anyone battling through a weight loss journey.
Don’t look at how far you have got to go, or how wobbly and untoned your legs
and stomach might be, your stretch marks – all of it is a sign that you have
gotten somewhere and are your battle scars (wear them proud) – you are not the
same as you were a year ago, a month ago or maybe a week ago. Stay consistent,
keep that goal in mind but remember how far you have come and don’t let anyone
make you feel any less of yourself. I am telling you WELL DONE! KEEP IT UP! YOU
LOOK AMAZING!
Thursday, 10 September 2015
BIRTH STORY - A SECOND TIME AROUND
On 14 January 2015 - my beautiful second child was born. A boy. His name is Blake. It means: Dark and Fair - which is balance.
After my traumatic experience with my first birth - I never thought I would go down this path again. It happened though and it was wonderful and not what I expected a year or so before it happened.
It is absolutely amazing how the circumstances in your life can make such a huge difference to how you experience your pregnancy and labour.
When I was about three months pregnant I divorced my husband. I was pregnant with his child and my first child was also his son but the abuse I went through in the marriage and the affect it was having on my first child was too much. I did not want my second child going through what my first child went through. Diaan (number 1) was a year and half when I took that step. If it was not for my children I probably would have stayed... but it was not just about me any more. My children were now involved and I was not going to let anyone hurt them - even if it meant leaving their father.
As heartbreaking and emotional as it was it was one of the best decisions I had ever made in my life. One of the hardest too.
I met another man, just after leaving my ex-husband. He embraced me and my children (both my 1 year old and unborn child) as his own. He changed my world. The world was a happy place - I felt lighter - I now knew what it meant to be loved - and loved properly - and to love properly back in return. My toddler was happier, I was happier and I felt how happy my baby was inside of me - because mommy was happy so was he. My pregnancy was a breeze.
He came with me into theatre when it was time for my c-section. He even put his running shoes on and was pacing the hospital floor like a tiger in its cage - he was so excited. He held my hand every step of the way - he was there at the operating table. And when Blake entered this world, his beautiful face was lit up - a glorious moment when you get that first look at your baby - I saw the glitter in my partner's eyes. My little boy was born into unconditional love from his mother, my partner and his big brother. My partner held him while they sewed me up and he looked at him as if he was his own.
Diaan came to meet his baby brother the same day. He was so soft and gentle. Such a wise little boy he is. He looked at me and softly touched my arm while he sat on the hospital bed next to me, and he looked at his brother with awe. To this day he has been his protector.
I recovered in about a week. Almost 4 times more faster than my first time.
I was so scared about how things would work with a second child but everything blended in perfectly. And still does.
How blessed I am to have these two amazing children in my life and to have such an amazing partner.
Thank you for choosing me as your mother.
After my traumatic experience with my first birth - I never thought I would go down this path again. It happened though and it was wonderful and not what I expected a year or so before it happened.
It is absolutely amazing how the circumstances in your life can make such a huge difference to how you experience your pregnancy and labour.
When I was about three months pregnant I divorced my husband. I was pregnant with his child and my first child was also his son but the abuse I went through in the marriage and the affect it was having on my first child was too much. I did not want my second child going through what my first child went through. Diaan (number 1) was a year and half when I took that step. If it was not for my children I probably would have stayed... but it was not just about me any more. My children were now involved and I was not going to let anyone hurt them - even if it meant leaving their father.
As heartbreaking and emotional as it was it was one of the best decisions I had ever made in my life. One of the hardest too.
I met another man, just after leaving my ex-husband. He embraced me and my children (both my 1 year old and unborn child) as his own. He changed my world. The world was a happy place - I felt lighter - I now knew what it meant to be loved - and loved properly - and to love properly back in return. My toddler was happier, I was happier and I felt how happy my baby was inside of me - because mommy was happy so was he. My pregnancy was a breeze.
He came with me into theatre when it was time for my c-section. He even put his running shoes on and was pacing the hospital floor like a tiger in its cage - he was so excited. He held my hand every step of the way - he was there at the operating table. And when Blake entered this world, his beautiful face was lit up - a glorious moment when you get that first look at your baby - I saw the glitter in my partner's eyes. My little boy was born into unconditional love from his mother, my partner and his big brother. My partner held him while they sewed me up and he looked at him as if he was his own.
Diaan came to meet his baby brother the same day. He was so soft and gentle. Such a wise little boy he is. He looked at me and softly touched my arm while he sat on the hospital bed next to me, and he looked at his brother with awe. To this day he has been his protector.
I recovered in about a week. Almost 4 times more faster than my first time.
I was so scared about how things would work with a second child but everything blended in perfectly. And still does.
How blessed I am to have these two amazing children in my life and to have such an amazing partner.
Thank you for choosing me as your mother.
Tuesday, 28 April 2015
I Found Myself
It has been two years since my last post and a lot of changes have occurred. I wasn't lost but I was found - I found myself.
Since my last post I have had a second child and divorced my husband.
I found someone, my soul mate and I can truly say I have never been happier.
I have learned so much and I want to share it with everyone - I want to share it because it might help someone else who is in the same situation.
I thought I was in love with my ex-husband. I truly thought the saying "the couples who are meant to be together always get through their obstacles and stay together". That is not always the case. I learned that it is better to come from a broken home than to be in a broken home.
I can't say when it started - when I lost all respect for my other half but I think what opened my eyes was my child. The way my ex-husband was treating me was effecting my little boy - and I did not want him growing up thinking it was okay for him to treat others that way. And I saw it breaking his little heart and I could not do that to him anymore. And so I put my foot down and I said "no more". And it was the best decision I have ever made!
I now have someone in my life who treats me as if I am gold and that makes me want to treat him the same. My children see someone treating me with utter respect and love and that makes them happy and whatever makes them happy makes me happy! It is just wonderful to love someone (properly) and be loved back in return (properly). I thank my lucky stars everyday and I attracted this beautiful love in my life and into my children's lives.
I now feel like I can grow and reach more goals and just reach higher and higher in life. Sometimes the hardest decisions are the ones you need to make. Following your heart might be scary but in the end it is what is supposed to happen. In that moment you might not see the point of it all but it will come and you will feel freedom inside your heart.
Espavo!
Since my last post I have had a second child and divorced my husband.
I found someone, my soul mate and I can truly say I have never been happier.
I have learned so much and I want to share it with everyone - I want to share it because it might help someone else who is in the same situation.
I thought I was in love with my ex-husband. I truly thought the saying "the couples who are meant to be together always get through their obstacles and stay together". That is not always the case. I learned that it is better to come from a broken home than to be in a broken home.
I can't say when it started - when I lost all respect for my other half but I think what opened my eyes was my child. The way my ex-husband was treating me was effecting my little boy - and I did not want him growing up thinking it was okay for him to treat others that way. And I saw it breaking his little heart and I could not do that to him anymore. And so I put my foot down and I said "no more". And it was the best decision I have ever made!
I now have someone in my life who treats me as if I am gold and that makes me want to treat him the same. My children see someone treating me with utter respect and love and that makes them happy and whatever makes them happy makes me happy! It is just wonderful to love someone (properly) and be loved back in return (properly). I thank my lucky stars everyday and I attracted this beautiful love in my life and into my children's lives.
I now feel like I can grow and reach more goals and just reach higher and higher in life. Sometimes the hardest decisions are the ones you need to make. Following your heart might be scary but in the end it is what is supposed to happen. In that moment you might not see the point of it all but it will come and you will feel freedom inside your heart.
Espavo!
Wednesday, 12 June 2013
THIS IS THE POINT - Connectivity
Life (NBC TV series) (Photo credit: Wikipedia) |
Recently I had a conversation with someone about what the
meaning of life is – and how some of us (including me) can fall into a
depression about “what the point is” when it comes to this life.
This feeling of depression and feeling of being defeated
normally gets triggered by seeing and hearing about all these horrible things
happening in the world today – which I
normally don’t ever elaborate on because I do not want to focus any energy on
those negative things as I feel that just gives that negativity more power.
But for the purpose of what I want to get across today I am talking about the
crime we see on the news and hear on the radio and the abuse humankind is
inflicting on each other and on Mother Earth. The reality of it all hits home -
that things like this have always been happening and so probably will continue
to happen.
This makes a person wonder why? What is the point of being
here if this is what is happening. It personally makes me sick… We feel like we
are stuck here in this terrible place and then when we pass away on to wherever
we go (depending on what you believe in) does it even matter? This can make a
person very depressed and that causes other things like anxiety, anger and all
sorts of other emotions – which in turn may result in more negative actions. A
vicious cycle if you ask me…
We try and make ourselves feel better about this all and so
use things like materialism, work and in my case substance abuse. Which as you
know does not really help the situation either – and only makes it worse…
Again, a vicious cycle is happening here.
So how do we overcome this feeling of helplessness? Is there
a way of getting over it? The most asked question always comes to mind – what is
the meaning of life…
The way I have learned to overcome this feeling and to stop
myself from falling into that realm of confusion, helplessness and depression -
and from being part of the vicious cycle is this – Connectivity! - We are all connected
I think about all the people in my life who are positive and
good and who love me. This then reminds me that if I have people like this surrounding
me then there are obviously a lot more other people out there who are just like
these good and positive people I have been blessed to have in my life. So even
though there are “bad” people out there – there are a lot of “good” people out
there too. And this in turn makes me feel better about the world. We need to get out of our little box of
selfishness (ego) and remember that there are a lot of other people out there
experiencing the same things we are experiencing (in their own way) and that we
are not the only person on this earth/in this universe.
Life (Photo credit: bitzcelt) |
Look back on your life and remember all the good things you
have done and all the things you have achieved. Also look back on your mistakes
and remember how you overcame those mistakes and obstacles which helped you to
become a better person. Doing this will help you to build on what you already
have achieved so far in this lifetime. Each time you feel there is no point
look back at what you have already achieved and then also remember how these
things have made your world and in turn another person’s experience of you and
their world better.
It helps to remember that everything is connected –
everything you do will in turn affect another person and the more positive your
actions the more positive the effect will be on not only yourself or the person
you are directly connected to BUT the rest of the world too! THIS IS THE POINT!
Yes we are all tiny little specks in this big world we live
in BUT everything we do has cause and effect and so we all make a huge difference
in this world we live in.
Getting all upset and angry about feeling that there is no
point in this life and so on is selfish and it is egotistical! Even though you
might think that locking yourself up in your room sulking or smoking that joint
or walking around moping is not affecting anyone – you are wrong. There are people
in your life connected to you and everything you do AND the way you treat YOURSELF
(not only others) will affect the people in your life (even if it is just one
person).
I know that we can’t always be happy and spirited with a
spring in our step all the time. I mean, that will just make us feel like we
are living in Teletubby town – but the point is to remember that we are all
connected and to remember that our actions are affecting others and in turn the
world. Sit with that negativity you are feeling, feel the emotions and work
through it – and then overcome it, because that is the POINT.
Espavo!
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Wednesday, 20 February 2013
A quiet little place
Keep a quiet little place
Where only you can go
A place securely set aside
To think, to breathe, to grow
Don't think that you will be lonely there
For God is close beside you
His messages will all come through
To comfort and to guide you
Lifes burdens grow much brighter
For all those who have set apart
A quiet place for God to dwell
At peace within the heart.
I memorized this poem as a little girl and it has stayed with me my whole life.
I wanted to share it with everyone as it has helped me stay calm and relaxed in many situations where I found it difficult to handle life.
Espavo
Where only you can go
A place securely set aside
To think, to breathe, to grow
Don't think that you will be lonely there
For God is close beside you
His messages will all come through
To comfort and to guide you
Lifes burdens grow much brighter
For all those who have set apart
A quiet place for God to dwell
At peace within the heart.
I memorized this poem as a little girl and it has stayed with me my whole life.
I wanted to share it with everyone as it has helped me stay calm and relaxed in many situations where I found it difficult to handle life.
Espavo
Wednesday, 30 January 2013
Writing a book -Finally!!
Ever since I can remember I have wanted to write a book. With all that has happened in my life and the experiences I have had I have always thought that I would write about them one day and maybe help people with this book by giving advice and writing about what I have gone through and how I overcame all the difficulties.
There have been a few things holding me back though which is why I have never really ever taken that step forward. Will I offend someone? What do I write about, there are so many different things? - Will it turn out to just be mumble jumble. How do I even start with writing a book? And so on...
Thanks to my sister's advice I have made that first step though. She told me to just start writing and then we will see from there. I feel like I am overflowing with information that I just want to write down thanks to her support and the support I have received from everyone else in my life. Knowing that they all think I should do this gives me the confidence I need.
This was my first step - to write it in my blog - I have now committed to it! :)
Here is to 2013 being an awesome year with all my ventures becoming huge successes. This year has already brought me all the opportunities I need for me to accomplish all the dreams that I have been wanting to fulfill! This star is going to shine brightly. :)
ESPAVO!
There have been a few things holding me back though which is why I have never really ever taken that step forward. Will I offend someone? What do I write about, there are so many different things? - Will it turn out to just be mumble jumble. How do I even start with writing a book? And so on...
Thanks to my sister's advice I have made that first step though. She told me to just start writing and then we will see from there. I feel like I am overflowing with information that I just want to write down thanks to her support and the support I have received from everyone else in my life. Knowing that they all think I should do this gives me the confidence I need.
This was my first step - to write it in my blog - I have now committed to it! :)
Here is to 2013 being an awesome year with all my ventures becoming huge successes. This year has already brought me all the opportunities I need for me to accomplish all the dreams that I have been wanting to fulfill! This star is going to shine brightly. :)
ESPAVO!
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